How It Works
Register
Join a global community built on transparency. Whether you’re a donor or a recipient, you define your own terms—from Anonymous or Open ID to Co-Parenting. Set your goals, share your story, and join a network where you are in total control.
Explore & Discover
Browse diverse profiles from around the world. Because our members self-register, you’re connecting with real people, not a static database. Filter by values, intentions, and connection preferences to find a match that truly resonates with your vision.
Request & Connect
When you find a match, send a connection request. Our admin team facilitates the introduction, ensuring the donor is ready to engage or step into our managed screening process. Once the donor accepts, your private chat opens to begin your journey together.
Why Choose Us
Our approach ensures you get the support you need every step of the way.
Trusted & Secure
Our process ensures that chat only begins when there is genuine, mutual interest. We use advanced encryption and verification methods to protect your information and ensure a safe, reliable experience.
True Autonomy
Unlike rigid agencies, we empower you to set your own terms—whether that’s anonymous, open, or co-parenting. You choose the path that aligns with your values, ensuring the connection is built on mutual intent, not just a profile match.
A Global Community
Our platform connects you with individuals from across the globe who have self-registered and are ready to engage. You aren’t picking a number from a catalog; you are meeting someone who is personally invested in this process.
Human-Centric Facilitation
We’re the bridge, not the barrier. While you lead the connection, our team is always in your corner. From managing sensitive communication to coordinating professional screening and third-party support, we ensure your journey is safe, respectful, and supported every step of the way.
Real Stories, Real Families
Discover inspiring journeys of families who have transformed their lives through our platform.
Compassionate and Truly Personal
“When we first explored donor options through a large clinic, everything felt cold and impersonal. Working with Toyin was the complete opposite. She took the time to understand who we are, what really mattered to us, and even got to know the donors personally. The way she could describe their personality made the process feel real and human. We always felt we were in safe hands.”Â
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A & J, London
Trusted Experience
“We had heard about Toyin through others who worked with her before, and we quickly understood why she’s so highly recommended. She has years of experience, a deep understanding of the process, and an unmatched ability to connect the right people together. We’re so excited she’s launched her own service – many families will benefit.”Â
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M. & D., Kent
Detailed, Thorough, and Honest
“What impressed us most was how much detail Toyin put into finding a match. She didn’t just look at the basics; she asked us about values, lifestyle, even personality traits that mattered to us. It never felt like a transaction – it felt like someone truly cared about our journey.”Â
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Kelly & Cathy, Hampshire
Trusted Experience
“We had heard about Toyin through others who worked with her before, and we quickly understood why she’s so highly recommended. She has years of experience, a deep understanding of the process, and an unmatched ability to connect the right people together. We’re so excited she’s launched her own service – many families will benefit.”Â
Disclaimer: Image is not real to protect client anonymity
M. & D., Kent
Compassionate and Truly Personal
“When we first explored donor options through a large clinic, everything felt cold and impersonal. Working with Toyin was the complete opposite. She took the time to understand who we are, what really mattered to us, and even got to know the donors personally. The way she could describe their personality made the process feel real and human. We always felt we were in safe hands.”Â
Disclaimer:Â Image is not real to protect client anonymity
A & J, London
Trusted Experience
“We had heard about Toyin through others who worked with her before, and we quickly understood why she’s so highly recommended. She has years of experience, a deep understanding of the process, and an unmatched ability to connect the right people together. We’re so excited she’s launched her own service – many families will benefit.”Â
Disclaimer: Image is not real to protect client anonymity
M. & D., Kent
Detailed, Thorough, and Honest
“What impressed us most was how much detail Toyin put into finding a match. She didn’t just look at the basics; she asked us about values, lifestyle, even personality traits that mattered to us. It never felt like a transaction – it felt like someone truly cared about our journey.”Â
Disclaimer: Image is not real to protect client anonymity
Kelly & Cathy, Hampshire
Trusted Experience
“We had heard about Toyin through others who worked with her before, and we quickly understood why she’s so highly recommended. She has years of experience, a deep understanding of the process, and an unmatched ability to connect the right people together. We’re so excited she’s launched her own service – many families will benefit.”Â
Disclaimer: Image is not real to protect client anonymity
M. & D., Kent
Our Bespoke MatchME Service: Let Us Find Your Perfect Match
Too busy for a D.I.Y search and match, or have unique donor requirements? Let our expert donor search specialists handle it for you.
Access to Top-Tier Donors
A carefully curated collection of top-notch donors specifically tailored to meet your unique criteria.
Fast Results
You will receive a carefully curated list of potential donors within a timeframe of three weeks.
Expert Guidance
Our dedicated case managers are here to guide you through every single step of the process, ensuring that you feel supported and informed at each stage.
Customized Search
Our team of experts meticulously tailors the entire search process to align perfectly with your unique needs a personalized experience.
Need a Fertility Test?
Hassle-free at-home testing for faster answers
Need a Fertility Test?
Hassle-free at-home testing for faster answers
Every story is different — and so is our support.
Every family begins with a story — and your journey to parenthood is uniquely yours. With tailored donor solutions, we support single parents by choice, LGBTQ+ families, and those navigating infertility — helping you move forward with confidence.
Single women
Considering motherhood on your own? We’ll help you find the perfect sperm donor.
LGBT+ couples
35% of the people we help are same-sex couples building their families. Let us help you too.
Couples with infertility
1 in 6 couples experience fertility struggles. Explore your options for donor conception.
Not sure where to start?
Our dedicated customer care team is here to support you.
Give the Gift of Life – Become a Donor
Discover your journey to parenthood with the perfect donor solution tailored to your needs. Whether you’re a single woman, part of an LGBTQ+ couple, or dealing with infertility, our guides and experts are here to help.
What Our Users Say
Real experiences from real people who found their perfect match.
Sophie
4.5
“Using Match Me’s self-serve matching was simple, secure, and I got exactly what I needed. The entire process was straightforward and the support team was there whenever I had questions.”
Sophie
“Using their Match Me service was simple and made me feel I had a partner in terms of my search. Finding an egg donor was so daunting and overwhelming for me, working with them just took that edge off, plus they know so much about their donors, it made me feel reassured.”
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Marvin & Greg
We’re a gay couple and had a few friends who’d hinted they might help as egg donors, but honestly, approaching them ourselves felt complicated and awkward. Find My Donor stepped in and completely changed the experience. They offered a tailored service—contacted our friends with our permission, coordinated everything, and even gave us an objective perspective on who might be the best match. It made what could’ve been uncomfortable feel natural and stress-free. They also arranged all the medical testing for the donor and helped us find a clinic. Now we’re looking to use their additional services to coordinate the entire end-to-end treatment process, as juggling our work commitments while trying to coordinate appointments with the clinic on our own feels a little overwhelming. Couldn’t recommend them more—they’ve made something that felt daunting actually feel possible.
Disclaimer: Names and image are not real to protect client anonymity.
Sophie
“Using their Match Me service was simple and made me feel I had a partner in terms of my search. Finding an egg donor was so daunting and overwhelming for me, working with them just took that edge off, plus they know so much about their donors, it made me feel reassured.”
Disclaimer: Name and image are not real to protect client anonymity.
Marvin & Greg
We’re a gay couple and had a few friends who’d hinted they might help as egg donors, but honestly, approaching them ourselves felt complicated and awkward. Find My Donor stepped in and completely changed the experience. They offered a tailored service—contacted our friends with our permission, coordinated everything, and even gave us an objective perspective on who might be the best match. It made what could’ve been uncomfortable feel natural and stress-free. They also arranged all the medical testing for the donor and helped us find a clinic. Now we’re looking to use their additional services to coordinate the entire end-to-end treatment process, as juggling our work commitments while trying to coordinate appointments with the clinic on our own feels a little overwhelming. Couldn’t recommend them more—they’ve made something that felt daunting actually feel possible.
