A Hub Where Donors and recipients Connect
At FindMyDonor, we believe that everyone deserves the opportunity to build the family they dream of.
A Secure & Flexible Path to Parenthood
Welcome to Find My Donor — a trusted hub where donors and recipients connect with confidence, security, and expert support. Whether you’re an aspiring parent searching for the right donor or someone looking to make a meaningful impact through donation, we provide the flexibility to take control of your journey while ensuring expert oversight every step of the way.
We understand that donor matching is more than just a process — it’s a deeply personal decision that shapes families and futures. That’s why we’ve built a unique ecosystem that balances autonomy with professional guidance, allowing you to match your way while always feeling safe, supported, and empowered.
Our Experience & Approach
Behind Find My Donor is a team with over 35 years of combined experience in fertility care and donor services. Collectively, we’ve worked with leading donor banks and IVF centres across the UK, Europe, and the United States, giving us a global perspective and strong networks that benefit both donors and recipients.
What makes us different is our belief that donor matching needs to be relevant to today. People are more connected than ever through technology, and fertility services should reflect that. Some donors and recipients want to take things into their own hands and arrange their own match — with the right safeguards in place. Others would rather outsource the entire process to a trusted team who can handle everything for them.
We believe you shouldn’t have to choose one rigid path. With Find My Donor, you can have the best of both worlds: autonomy when you want it, and expert support when you need it. No two journeys are the same, and whichever route you take, we’re here to guide, advise, and remove barriers so that accessing donation feels easier, safer, and more personal.
Our Mission
We’re here to bring hope, compassion, and clarity to donor matching. Whether you’re a donor wanting to make a difference or a recipient searching for the right match, Find My Donor ensures your journey is safe, ethical, and tailored to you.
Together, we’re not just finding donors — we’re helping create families.
Why Choose FindMyDonor?
Deep Expertise
Our team collectively boasts over 35 years of experience in fertility, donor services, and patient care.
Personal & Inclusive
We respect what matters most to families, from heritage to personality.
Flexible Options
Choose DIY self-matching, our private donor bank, or our bespoke MatchMe personalised search.
Safe & Compliant
We partner with clinics that follow national laws and ethical standards (e.g. HFEA in the UK), ensuring every journey is compliant and supported.
The Heart Behind Our Work
“When I first started working in fertility more than 15 years ago, I quickly realised how impersonal and overwhelming donor matching could feel. Families were often reduced to profiles and numbers. And many — especially those from diverse backgrounds — didn’t feel truly seen or understood. I made it my mission to change that. Early in my career, working in sperm donation, I didn’t just get to know donors — I built a community. I became known for hosting “donor parties,” where men who had donated could meet others who had shared the same journey. We’d fill pubs on Harley Street — me with nothing but a business card and hundreds of men gathered together. Outsiders must have wondered what on earth was going on. Of course, due to anonymity rules, we could never explain. But that didn’t matter. What mattered was that these men felt supported, appreciated, and never alone.
I brought that same spirit into egg donation — organising park picnics and intimate gatherings where donors could connect and where I could really get to know them. That personal connection became essential. When recipients asked what a donor was really like — their personality, values, emotional intelligence — I could speak with honesty and heart, far beyond what a profile alone could offer. For me, donor matching was never just about hair colour or height. It’s about finding donors who truly fit, in ways that matter for families now and for children in the future. And when children grow up and ask their mums or dads what their donor was like, I don’t want those parents to be filled with dread, holding only abstract cryogenic numbers and a basic profile. They should be able to share something more real, more human.
That’s why Find My Donor exists: to give recipients the freedom to search for what matters to them, and the confidence that if they need our help, we’ll approach the process with the same care, detail, and integrity as if it were our own family. And for donors, it means joining a platform and a private bank that truly cares — a place where your generosity is valued, your anonymity respected, and your wellbeing supported.”
Toyin Lawal, Founder, Find My Donor
Every story is different — and so is our support.
Every family begins with a story — and your journey to parenthood is uniquely yours. With tailored donor solutions, we support single parents by choice, LGBTQ+ families, and those navigating infertility — helping you move forward with confidence.
Single women
Considering motherhood on your own? We’ll help you find the perfect sperm donor.
LGBT+ couples
35% of the people we help are same-sex couples building their families. Let us help you too.
Couples with infertility
1 in 6 couples experience fertility struggles. Explore your options for donor conception.
Not sure where to start?
Our dedicated customer care team is here to support you.
What Our Users Say
Real experiences from real people who found their perfect match.
S. & L., Edinburgh
“In the UK, you don’t get to meet or see pictures of donors, which can feel very limiting. What stood out about Toyin is that she had actually met the donors herself and could share genuine reflections of their personality, character, and warmth. That gave us a sense of reassurance no clinic database could provide.”
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Bukola., Warwick
“As a Nigerian woman, it was so important to me that my donor reflected my heritage. A clinic I approached brushed me off and tried to match me without understanding the significance. Toyin went deeper – she asked about my background, even down to my Yoruba tribe, and found a donor that felt right for me and my future family. That care and detail meant everything.”
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Marvin & Greg
We’re a gay couple and had a few friends who’d hinted they might help as egg donors, but honestly, approaching them ourselves felt complicated and awkward. Find My Donor stepped in and completely changed the experience. They offered a tailored service—contacted our friends with our permission, coordinated everything, and even gave us an objective perspective on who might be the best match. It made what could’ve been uncomfortable feel natural and stress-free. They also arranged all the medical testing for the donor and helped us find a clinic. Now we’re looking to use their additional services to coordinate the entire end-to-end treatment process, as juggling our work commitments while trying to coordinate appointments with the clinic on our own feels a little overwhelming. Couldn’t recommend them more—they’ve made something that felt daunting actually feel possible.
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Sophie
“Using their Match Me service was simple and made me feel I had a partner in terms of my search. Finding an egg donor was so daunting and overwhelming for me, working with them just took that edge off, plus they know so much about their donors, it made me feel reassured.”
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Michael O, Belgium
“”The process was incredibly smooth and the support team was helpful every step of the way. I always felt informed and respected.””
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Michael O, Belgium
“”The process was incredibly smooth and the support team was helpful every step of the way. I always felt informed and respected.””
