Find the Right Donor, On Your Terms
Your journey to parenthood is unique—and so is our approach.
Your Journey to Parenthood
At FindMyDonor, we put you in control. Our platform is designed for those who want a transparent, autonomous way to find a donor based on personal values, heritage, and future plans. We’ve moved away from the cold, clinical database model to create a community where connections are built on mutual intent and respect..
How It Works
Create Your Profile
Share your story and define what matters most to you in a donor.
01
Explore Donors
Browse our global community of self-registered donors. Filter by the traits and values that align with your family vision.
02
Request Contact
Found a match? Send a request. Our admin team facilitates the introduction to ensure the donor is ready to engage.
03
Start the Conversation
Once the donor accepts your request, our secure chat feature opens, allowing you to discuss your goals directly.
04
Move Forward with Support
Whether you choose a clinic-based pathway or a private arrangement, we provide the framework to ensure your journey is safe and respectful.
05
Membership Tiers
Our platform offers flexible membership options designed for your unique needs. Whether you’re just starting out or looking for full access to donor profiles, we have a plan that’s right for you. For a more personalized approach, consider our Concierge Donor Matching Service or Premium Donor Search.
Monthly
Yearly
Free Membership
Free Membership
£0
£0
- Browse limited donor profiles
- View usernames only
- Access basic community resources
- Create basic recipient profile
- Browse limited donor profiles
- View usernames only
- Access basic community resources
- Create basic recipient profile
Premium Membership
Premium Membership
£29
£79
/mo
/mo
- Unlock full donor profiles
- Request contact via admin team
- Set detailed donation preferences
- Priority support
- Unlock full donor profiles
- Request contact via admin team
- Set detailed donation preferences
- Priority support
Looking For A more Personalised Search?
If you have highly specific requirements, a busy schedule, or simply prefer not to manage a DIY search, we signpost you to our partner, TheDonorBank.com. TheDonorBank offers a bespoke "headhunter" service. Rather than browsing a community, you work with a specialist recruiter who actively sources, recruits, and screens donors globally specifically for you. They handle the entire process—from the initial search to clinical coordination—ensuring you find the right match without the need for endless scrolling.
Real Stories, Real Families
Discover inspiring journeys of families who have transformed their lives through our platform.
Compassionate and Truly Personal
“When we first explored donor options through a large clinic, everything felt cold and impersonal. Working with Toyin was the complete opposite. She took the time to understand who we are, what really mattered to us, and even got to know the donors personally. The way she could describe their personality made the process feel real and human. We always felt we were in safe hands.”Â
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A & J, London
Trusted Experience
“We had heard about Toyin through others who worked with her before, and we quickly understood why she’s so highly recommended. She has years of experience, a deep understanding of the process, and an unmatched ability to connect the right people together. We’re so excited she’s launched her own service – many families will benefit.”Â
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M. & D., Kent
Detailed, Thorough, and Honest
“What impressed us most was how much detail Toyin put into finding a match. She didn’t just look at the basics; she asked us about values, lifestyle, even personality traits that mattered to us. It never felt like a transaction – it felt like someone truly cared about our journey.”Â
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Kelly & Cathy, Hampshire
Trusted Experience
“We had heard about Toyin through others who worked with her before, and we quickly understood why she’s so highly recommended. She has years of experience, a deep understanding of the process, and an unmatched ability to connect the right people together. We’re so excited she’s launched her own service – many families will benefit.”Â
Disclaimer: Image is not real to protect client anonymity
M. & D., Kent
Compassionate and Truly Personal
“When we first explored donor options through a large clinic, everything felt cold and impersonal. Working with Toyin was the complete opposite. She took the time to understand who we are, what really mattered to us, and even got to know the donors personally. The way she could describe their personality made the process feel real and human. We always felt we were in safe hands.”Â
Disclaimer:Â Image is not real to protect client anonymity
A & J, London
Trusted Experience
“We had heard about Toyin through others who worked with her before, and we quickly understood why she’s so highly recommended. She has years of experience, a deep understanding of the process, and an unmatched ability to connect the right people together. We’re so excited she’s launched her own service – many families will benefit.”Â
Disclaimer: Image is not real to protect client anonymity
M. & D., Kent
Detailed, Thorough, and Honest
“What impressed us most was how much detail Toyin put into finding a match. She didn’t just look at the basics; she asked us about values, lifestyle, even personality traits that mattered to us. It never felt like a transaction – it felt like someone truly cared about our journey.”Â
Disclaimer: Image is not real to protect client anonymity
Kelly & Cathy, Hampshire
Trusted Experience
“We had heard about Toyin through others who worked with her before, and we quickly understood why she’s so highly recommended. She has years of experience, a deep understanding of the process, and an unmatched ability to connect the right people together. We’re so excited she’s launched her own service – many families will benefit.”Â
